

I learned so much about myself this past year, so much about pleasure/fantasies/intimacy through the online world and how my values aligned with them. this year, i learned how to define myself within my own values, and how to ignore outside pressures. I learned to be my authentic self, and that’s what makes me the proudest. I learned that I do desire to play into fantasies - i don’t as long as there are the proper boundaries. and as long as I’m not hurting myself and going against my own values, i can accomplish anything I want. its really cool to define my own work.