When you want to be touched, caressed, excited, squeezed - this is passion. When you want to be cared for in every possible way, to solve your problems, to give you gifts, to provide for you - this is infantilism. When you want to be fiercely loved, could not live without you, share all your time with you and put everything else on the back burner - this is selfishness. When you love, you don't want anything. You just love.