...after our little floor sex romp, we sat around and chatted, he ordered bourbon and I had my champagne. That's actually really critical to the good sex we always have - it's not about meeting a man and its p-in-v sex. Many here ask me that or say "you can find a man anywhere". But actually it's a lot harder than that. Because if I don't feel a connection? There's no way the sex would be even mediocre. The fun conversation and joking and shared history we have is WHY the sex is amazing. (and probably why sex with my husband is the most amazing of all on many levels, since we're married and all that life together). So since I do have that connection with my BF, I can use him for the really passionate hot forbidden sex that I just go crazy over (which is more wild passion that my husband, because it's rare, new, taboo, whatever - I just get so HOT! Even my husband says so, he's like "gee...you're never that crazy passionate with me😆!" Which is sorta why he likes me to go on dates. That passion still spills over into our own marriage bed. So we chatted and then moved to the bed, it was very relaxing, and I'd occasionally just go down on him and suck his cock (which I love), or he would lick my pussy, but it was a relaxed atmosphere...